My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis

This book is  more an awareness book than it is a story. The mother of two boys narrates the book and she says that one of her sons is a princess boy. That means that he likes to dress up in dresses and crowns and other traditionally girly clothing instead of clothes boys usually wear. He also like to play games girls usually play. The book takes the reader through various activities the princess boy likes to do and near the end she says that though some people laugh at princess boy, she never will, and then she asks the audience if they will.

The book is a good example of spreading awareness. Not all boys like to play with trucks and bugs, that whole idea. It's effective in presenting its message and the pictures are bright and colourful and whimsical. A good choice to introduce gender identity or gender construction.

Gender Diversity: Crosscultural Variations by Serena Nanda

This was a very readable book about the idea of gender and how it's not as black and white as some would love to make it. It basically takes a look at different cultures and documents how they view gender. When we think gender, in the Westernized society we live in (that I am sometimes not that happy about being a part of) we think of only two possibilities, male and female. Homosexuals are still men or women if they like someone of the same gender, they're just weird *dripping with sarcasm*. However, what we fail to realize (when I say we I mean main stream society, the mob, the collective) is that the concept of gender is a mental construction. What we see as fact and set in stone, is about as whimsically held together as a kite made out of feathers, it can fall apart at any time. As nature doesn't provide only two types of human beings, society must come to see that more than two types of human beings exist. Some cultures take this better than others and that is the point of this book. In some cultures there are three or four genders, and in some cultures other manifestations of sexual preference or gender are revered.

This book looks at various cultures around the world and how they deal with the issue of gender. It's a short read, but a fun one.

Luna: A Novel by Julie Ann Peters

This was a phenomenal story about struggle and rebirth. The story focuses on a transgendered guy through the eyes of his sister. And quite honestly I didn't go to sleep last night as I read it from start to finish.

The whole story is about how Luna (Liam's true self) is trapped within Liam, and Liam is a construction what the most acceptable way he can exist without revealing his true self turns out to be, which throughout the book we are told is like a shell of a person. Regan, the sister, has known from a young age that her brother is really a sister and devotes her entire life to keeping up the facade of Liam and dealing with Luna's problems. As a result Regan doesn't really have an identity. Both she and Luna are repressed 'Liam' Liam being society's rejection of transgendered individuals, and 'Liam' stifles those who know the truth to the point where the death of the individual wouldn't matter because the spirit, their soul, is already dead, crushed by society's rigid rejection. As depressing as that sounds however, this book is a phoenix rising out of the ashes story. For most of the novel everyone rejects Luna, even Regan and Liam as they are more embarrassed and wanting to keep Luna underground more than anything else. As the story progresses however, Luna decides that she needs to make herself known, she needs to break free, so she hesitantly goes about doing this, at first just recognizing this fact, than taking ever growing steps toward freedom. People accept or reject her as this process takes shape, but the only viewpoints the readers focus in on are Luna/ Liam's and Regan's. We never hear the final conclusion the other characters come to, which is appropriate as we can fill in our own selves or those we know into those characters, because this is very much an unfinished story as sexism still exists in a huge way today.

For most of the book Regan is just used as a lense through which the reader can learn about Luna and has no personality or character of her own, but she along with Luna, comes to the realization that she has no 'self' because of 'Liam' and though she doesn't act on it the way Luna does, she gets proddings from the outside world (in the shape of a new guy in school) to bring attention to her own life and not focus everything on Luna.

I teared up a few times reading this. Everyone has an inner self to let out, it's a struggle we all go through, some more so than others.

Kinky Boots (2006)

I love this movie. It's about a guy who owns a shoe factory, but the shoe factory is about to go under, so he strikes a bargain with this cross-dresser names Lola to make high heeled boots for men. Lola's such a flamboyant character and stands up to all of the crap people give her and keeps on going. She has such a strength of character that I guess I want to see from someone facing such adversity. Gender identity is such a delicate issue and I'm glad that there are such main stream movies as this that address the issue. It's a really touching movie and its both feel good and sad... if that makes sense, but I enjoy watching it every time its on.